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Is my boyfriend addicted to sex or is this normal? - HELP!? *This maybe in too much detail & long* - HELP
Right me and my bf been together a few months known him a few years and he's the one never felt like this about anyone before, but the sex was dare I say 'normal' at first, now due to work he's working 50miles away for 6months and we only see each other at weekends and once during the week and I know when we aren't together he watches porn. At first I didn't mind but now I'm not keen on it, when we have sex he can't just enter me and *** once he has to *** twice, when he goes down on me he constantly says how he 'loves my pussy juices' and has started putting four fingers inside me and says he wants to get to the point of fisting me! The other night we were 'doggy style' and he started to rub my bum hole! Now I don't want to attempt anal sex or anything, to be the butt was made for things leaving not entering! (But he says most of the porn he watches is anal) I can't just play with him in fun as he ALWAYS wants to be finished off and many a time has said if I can't finish him off he'd have to **** it out in the bathroom. Now to me the whole intimacy of sex has gone, there's not much kissing when we are having actual sex now, he can't just go down on me once it has to be twice then he enters me and then he will do his best to watch him entering while we have sex. As I say I've never felt like this and I love him so much and the feeling is mutual, but I can't continue like this in the sex department. Its as if sex isn't just me and him. Its me him AND porn. Is this experimental in sex or his he addicted to sex/porn? | | it woudln't be normal if he isn't addicted to sex every guy is so | Is my Boyfriend addicted to sex or is this a proper sex life? *This maybe in too much detail & long* - HELP
Right me and my bf been together a few months known him a few years and he's the one never felt like this about anyone before, but the sex was dare I say 'normal' at first, now due to work he's working 50miles away for 6months and we only see each other at weekends and once during the week and I know when we aren't together he watches porn. At first I didn't mind but now I'm not keen on it, when we have sex he can't just enter me and *** once he has to *** twice, when he goes down on me he constantly says how he 'loves my pussy juices' and has started putting four fingers inside me and says he wants to get to the point of fisting me! The other night we were 'doggy style' and he started to rub my bum hole! Now I don't want to attempt anal sex or anything, to be the butt was made for things leaving not entering! (But he says most of the porn he watches is anal) I can't just play with him in fun as he ALWAYS wants to be finished off and many a time has said if I can't finish him off he'd have to **** it out in the bathroom. Now to me the whole intimacy of sex has gone, there's not much kissing when we are having actual sex now, he can't just go down on me once it has to be twice then he enters me and then he will do his best to watch him entering while we have sex. As I say I've never felt like this and I love him so much and the feeling is mutual, but I can't continue like this in the sex department. Its as if sex isn't just me and him. Its me him AND porn. Is this experimental in sex or his he addicted to sex/porn? | | Thats just a character flaw on your boyfriends part. Leave him if you want. | Is my boyfriend additced to sex or is this normal? HELP? Your Open Question:
Is my boyfriend addicted to sex or is this a proper sex life?
*This maybe in too much detail & long* - HELP
Right me and my bf been together a few months known him a few years and he's the one never felt like this about anyone before, but the sex was dare I say 'normal' at first, now due to work he's working 50miles away for 6months and we only see each other at weekends and once during the week and I know when we aren't together he watches porn. At first I didn't mind but now I'm not keen on it, when we have sex he can't just enter me and *** once he has to *** twice, when he goes down on me he constantly says how he 'loves my pussy juices' and has started putting four fingers inside me and says he wants to get to the point of fisting me! The other night we were 'doggy style' and he started to rub my bum hole! Now I don't want to attempt anal sex or anything, to be the butt was made for things leaving not entering! (But he says most of the porn he watches is anal) I can't just play with him in fun as he ALWAYS wants to be finished off and many a time has said if I can't finish him off he'd have to **** it out in the bathroom. Now to me the whole intimacy of sex has gone, there's not much kissing when we are having actual sex now, he can't just go down on me once it has to be twice then he enters me and then he will do his best to watch him entering while we have sex. As I say I've never felt like this and I love him so much and the feeling is mutual, but I can't continue like this in the sex department. Its as if sex isn't just me and him. Its me him AND porn. Is this experimental in sex or his he addicted to sex/porn? | sorry but my answer is going to be long too.
wow i never thought that i would hear about some getting oral sex too much. but everyone likes diff things.
how were things before? are you comfortable having orgasms with him? did you have sex for the stuff that comes with it....ie kissing or cuddling, laying together? marking the relationship as permanent? what is it exactly that bothers you? he's looking at other women, is porn taking time away from things you used to do? does he physically hurt you?
you don't ever have to be hurt or made uncomfortable by any one.
that being said i did not see any thing in your post that screamed abnormal. seeing others do something like that is very stimulating. porn gets in the way of real life and real sex if you are addicted. men are by nature visual creatures. seeing stuff matters a lot more than it does to us.
it seems like he is horny and Curious and wants to try all this neat new stuff with the woman he is with.
i agree with some of the other posts that you should talk with him and explain what it is you are unhappy with.
don't say" i don't like porn"....he wont get what the issue is. figure out what it is that bothers you and and explain it. actually say it. like "porn makes me feel like you don't find me attractive "or whatever. do you feel like only "dirty/bad" people enjoy porn? maybe you think that you'' be dirty/bad" if you like any of this new stuff.'
to me a normal sexual relationship has mutual respect, consideration for the partner, how you make each other feel. it doesn't matter how the actual sex is | Is my boyfriend addicted to sex or is this a proper sex life? *This maybe in too much detail & long* - HELP
Right me and my bf been together a few months known him a few years and he's the one never felt like this about anyone before, but the sex was dare I say 'normal' at first, now due to work he's working 50miles away for 6months and we only see each other at weekends and once during the week and I know when we aren't together he watches porn. At first I didn't mind but now I'm not keen on it, when we have sex he can't just enter me and *** once he has to *** twice, when he goes down on me he constantly says how he 'loves my pussy juices' and has started putting four fingers inside me and says he wants to get to the point of fisting me! The other night we were 'doggy style' and he started to rub my bum hole! Now I don't want to attempt anal sex or anything, to be the butt was made for things leaving not entering! (But he says most of the porn he watches is anal) I can't just play with him in fun as he ALWAYS wants to be finished off and many a time has said if I can't finish him off he'd have to **** it out in the bathroom. Now to me the whole intimacy of sex has gone, there's not much kissing when we are having actual sex now, he can't just go down on me once it has to be twice then he enters me and then he will do his best to watch him entering while we have sex. As I say I've never felt like this and I love him so much and the feeling is mutual, but I can't continue like this in the sex department. Its as if sex isn't just me and him. Its me him AND porn. Is this experimental in sex or his he addicted to sex/porn? | its common because some males seem to lose the romance and forget the courtship at the beginning and believe she is mine now so i own her!
you need to remind him your not a store dummy on batteries and that you have a mind and heart and feelings! you need to talk more befoe you have any sex...go out , suggest a movie dinner, or a park! if he says no im tired then say your tired for sex
if he gets angry then say well im angry too ..i am hurt, i feel like a whore, you mount me and then finish off and im feeling like wtf!
if he doesnt feel after that then you should consider leaving him...
sorry
cheers | Is my boyfriend addicted to sex or is this a proper sex life? *This maybe in too much detail & long* - HELP
Right me and my bf been together a few months known him a few years and he's the one never felt like this about anyone before, but the sex was dare I say 'normal' at first, now due to work he's working 50miles away for 6months and we only see each other at weekends and once during the week and I know when we aren't together he watches porn. At first I didn't mind but now I'm not keen on it, when we have sex he can't just enter me and *** once he has to *** twice, when he goes down on me he constantly says how he 'loves my pussy juices' and has started putting four fingers inside me and says he wants to get to the point of fisting me! The other night we were 'doggy style' and he started to rub my bum hole! Now I don't want to attempt anal sex or anything, to be the butt was made for things leaving not entering! (But he says most of the porn he watches is anal) I can't just play with him in fun as he ALWAYS wants to be finished off and many a time has said if I can't finish him off he'd have to **** it out in the bathroom. Now to me the whole intimacy of sex has gone, there's not much kissing when we are having actual sex now, he can't just go down on me once it has to be twice then he enters me and then he will do his best to watch him entering while we have sex. As I say I've never felt like this and I love him so much and the feeling is mutual, but I can't continue like this in the sex department. Its as if sex isn't just me and him. Its me him AND porn. Is this experimental in sex or his he addicted to sex/porn? | |
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