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Help me help my friend-mature answers please xxx? my best friend was sexually abused as a guy. as a result she developed ocd. for years she had terrible images entering her head which made her believe she was like her abuser. she also feared that just becoz she hd been abused people would think she was like tht. anyway she finally gt therapy and realised tht all these images and thghts were just flashbacks from her abuse combined with her ocd and she was free. until now-she recently met a girl (she is gay) who she has fallen for however the girl is 19 an my friend is 25. she tells me she is terrified to persue her relationship incase people think she is ike her abuser coz of the age difference. im teling her thats crazy coz the girl is an adult and tht this is just her horrible ocd rearing its ugly head again trying to make her feel ashamed about her abuse. help me convince her tht just becoz people hav been abused tht does not mean people wil think their abusers an tht she can date who she wans without feelin ashamed coz shes older | You're absolutely right Gia and you sound like you're a great friend for her to have. Going off on a tangent for a sec, is she seeing a therapist or psychiatrist. The reason I ask is because from what you're describing it sounds like she might have a bad case of PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) as a result of the rape. And if she's undiagnosed, it'd be a huge help for her to see a professional who can help her learn some great strategies to overcome the trauma.
As far as her & her gf, you're right. She's not becoming her abuser by dating a girl who is a few years younger than her. Right now the age gap may feel; big to her, but as she gets older the difference will seem less significant. If she's found a great girl, she shouldn't feel ashamed. In fact she should be proud that she's found someone that she cares for so much that she's willing to pursue a relationship in spite of many reasons that would cause most girls to hesitate.
Her gf is legally an adult. Tell her to rember that. In an era where laws do their best to protect minors from every potential danger, the law gives her relationship a green light. Therefore, she has nothing to feel guilty for. | Is there a place that does free magazine giveaways? I am looking for a site that does'nt ask for my credit card number and anything personal other than the address for delivery... Looking for magazines that are explicit, mature, xxx rated, all types. | | I keep getting free offers for trade magazines, many regarding computers, businesses and building. If you say you have a business, they just give you free ones, like Infoworld. I don't think there are any X-rated "Trade publications", but you never know...try saying you're a nude dancer or something...? | A few more quotes xxx funny or true xxx? The difference between marriage and death? Dead people are free.
The husband who wants a happy marriage should learn to keep his mouth shut and his checkbook open.
The marriage of Marxism and feminism has been like the marriage of husband and wife depicted in English common law: Marxism and feminism are one, and that one is Marxism. --Heidi Hartmann [The Unhappy Marriage of Marxism and Feminism]
The most happy marriage I can imagine to myself would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman.
The only one of your guyren who does not grow up and move away is your husband.
The theory used to be you marry an older man because they are more mature. The new theory is that men don't mature. So you might as well marry a younger one.
There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage. | | And another * Chris | A few gor the girls xxx funny or true xxx sorry guys? For all those men who say, Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free. Here's an update for you: Why buy the bull if you can get him to jump the fence? Now days, 80% of women are against marriage, WHY? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage.
1. Men are like ...Laxatives ...... They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like. ... Bananas ....... The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like ...... Weather ... Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like .......Blenders ... You need One, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like .....Chocolate Bars... Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like .... Commercials.... You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like ... Department Stores .... Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8. Men are like ......Government Bonds .... They take soooooooo long to mature. | | L O L 10/10 X | Ear stretching help......? ok, im 13 and have 22mm ears... dont give me all that shot about how i will regret it, im too young an that... im mature and in a band... i stretched my ears because of the reasons the africans did.. to be free..... i like them and want them at 26MM that is my desired size... i cant reach it as one of my ears is thinning towards my face.. thanks xxx | | Everyone body is different you might have to stay at 22 for awhile, up to a year or so,let your body heal fully , then gauge up some more. You are probably trying to get there to fast. No big deal just have some patience , your young you have time to get there | I have a nokia 5800,Please help:-(...? I have a nokia 5800,i had this phone for nealy an year and 4 month i only have 6month left on my contract i aksed could i start my contract again for free,but they said only in januray.
a month before.
My nokia stopped working about 8 month ago i kept sending it back 5 times,but it kept breaking but i was alot younger im more mature now an wont break it,its been lying there broken for months so iv had to use a very old 2000 brick no camra phone,im gutted.
My screen on my broken nokia is just blank so i cant see what im doing,does anyone have any ideas on how to get it working again without taking it apart ect please help:(xxx | Erm.... not really u could take it to phone repair shops or get a new £20 phone from asda until Janruary.
Sorry cant help otherwise.
P.s if screen isnt smashed take the battery out leave it out for a day and put it in again | Best option for wifi repeater WITHOUT losing 50% bandwidth - DD-WRT or tomato and back-2-back AP's ? Sorry about that, it is not east to explain the salient points on one headline very coherently.
I need to extend a wifi signal several times (different fields with static caravans / laptops in deck chairs) and I know how I would like to do this - but need to check my thinking through.
I know I can use a single AP (linksys etc) to work in repeater mode but the problem here is that each time the signal is repeated / handed on, the available bandwidth decreases by 50% After several hops, this could be a bit grim - especially if distance reduces initial rate to 11 (or worse) MBs to start with.
I have googled (heavily) to try and check if my idea is valid - but can find nothing relevant.
My thought is that each repeater "box" has TWO APs, linked by Cat5 but housed in the same box, each on a different channel - eg: 1 and 6.
So Base station sits on Ch 1, this serves local caravans and also the nearest repeaters have a yagi giving a signal to drive AP 1 - this basically just working purely as a bridge - but then immediately dumps the output into AP2 - which provides service to local caravans but also provides a signal for the next repeater to point a yagi at.
I have checked through both DD-WRT and tomato information (such as I can find) and I can find nothing quite like this - yet it would appear to be a simple, workable solution.
I joined the DD-WRT community board and after spending an hour or so trying to search its user base, I clicked on technical support to be told to use the XXX search button. Joy.
So in summary:-
There might be a cluster of caravans almost a mile away, which will connect to repeater No. 9 - repeater 9 gets a signal from repeater no 6 which gets a signal from repeater no. 2 which has a feed from the main building.
As there are several hops, I do not want to use the "one radio re-broadcasting on the same channel and halving the bandwidth" approach, by the time it reached a distant caravan, it might be down to 1/16 of the original connecting speed - bad news if only 5.5 mbs to begin with.
While I know I could issue each van with a yagi and USB adaptor with external aerial port- and have them all link back to base, this stops folks pottering about with their laptops. As lots of mature trees and different fields on different heights, LOS back to base is not always there anyway - so again the repeaters are needed.
Although security is not much of an issue - free wifi and no WPA, it would be nice if the repeaters only try to repeat the signals they are supposed to - ability to lock onto a set SSID on a set channel would be really helpful - is this part of DD-WRT or tomato?
If anyone has done what I am trying to do (or knows why it is a bad idea) please let me know - I am happy to flash to either DD-WRT or tomato firmware if it helps.
Thanks for reading this - a bit long winded I know, but I know when I am trying to help someone it is frustrating not to have a reasonably clear picture of what is needing to be done.
Phew!
Mark | You can do what you depict using bridges for the "backhaul" but there is still some loss of speed. Setup MAIN --->Bridge--AP --> Users it does work. there are units made to do this (not your off the shelf items but a little heavier duty like Zinwell and Ubiquty or even better router boards. etc.)
The router boards let you put both radios on one board so you have backhaul and AP on one single board.
routerboard.com/
In the situation as you descibe it, the best solution is to use a MESH network. There is still some slight speed loss, no where near 50%, but then the signals are all still very stong for all users.
Just do a quick search for Mesh Network. A little reading should get you on the correct track | I'm a young writer in training, i need some advice please :)? hello im olivia.
i have been wanting too write a book well my first novel for quite some time now.
i don't know if you've heard of the books The Twilight Sage and another series called The House of Night these are personally my favourite books of all time.
saying that i have only just really started too get into the type of books i want to write about.
if you hadn't of already guessed these books are all to do with mythology of vampires, they fascinate me.
each of the two series i mentioned above have totally different theories on vampires the twilight saga being where they live in secret and get changed VERY painfully into a vampire by being bitten which in these books tells us is almost impossible and there are few that succeed.
where as in the house of night series(at the moment my favourite :) ) it takes a whole different spin on it they have the idea of a vampyre finishing school, you wither make the change or you die:its really that simple. they worship they're goddes Nyx, the personifier of night. and she blesses all of her 'guyren' and the main character Zoey she blesses alot with such things as affinitys for the five elements; earth, water, air, fire, and spirit.
so anyway, i would really like some help on some idea's and your personal opinions on my overview.
please feel free to write what you like.
inspire me please i will very much appriciate everything.
i have to say that my favourite part about my favourite books is the 'vampyre finishong school' but i cant copy that so please please help.
im 14 by the way, but im very mature :)
any ideas welcome..
it has to do with vampyres though.
at the moment i have briefly done a couple pages but i really need some help from people who know more about the buissness and just th elove of writing really.
i hope to here from you all soon.
i will check on this tommorow which im in england by the way so at about 5pm tommorow.
love you bye :) xxx
again i really appriciate evereything. | | Read Enid Blytons, Famous Five and change them into vampires are werewolves. |
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