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HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… Hi i want to know if this is normal for a 13 year old girl (nearly 14)
I am not lesbian or bi sexual.
I have a lot of sleepovers with my best friend. One sleepover we were talking about sex and guys when we searched porn on the internet. We looked at all sorts of pictures and information about sex, STD, and more. At the other sleepovers we watched video porn and i kept getting tingly feelings, kind of like i needed to pee. Last sleepover we were talking about masturbation and then using the light of my ipod, we were rubbing ourselves sitting on my bed, on top of our pajamas. Then we took our pants of lying there in our undies discussing ways to masturbating. We them poked ourselves, not each other, until i eventually cummed a small bit and so did she. We then sat on the bed facing each other legs up and touching, but our vagina's were not touching and masturbating watching each other. We then masturbated in front of my mirror. Out masturbating is mainly rubbing the clit, poking ourselves (2 fingers max, though i used the tip of three), rubbing spit onto ourselves and just watching each other.
Is it lesbian masturbating together ( i have a crush on a guy) and why do i get the urge to rub against her with my hand and vagina. Is it okay if we did that and what are some ways we can give pleasure to ourselves and each other WITHOUT it being lesbian.
By the way it has to be able be quiet enough not to wake my mum.
Thanks i am a bit confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | | If you don't want to be lesbo, stop doing that. | Sexually confused guy with peformance anxiety -what's wrong with me?!? I'm 18 and never had sex (or even been jerked off) or had a girlfriend, it’s complicated but here goes...
Ever since I first couldn't get an erection with a girl I have been worried about never being able to get it up. I was at a party, she came up to me and flirting etc leant on me and I got aroused, later on when I hooked up with her again and was fingering her I didn't get hard –it ended with a ‘you’re a virgin aren’t you, don’t worry about it’ which is pathetic ending. All the time I was praying and focusing on getting an erection. I was also drunk and had been smoking cannabis. I have had a few encounters now and the first thing I always think about is not being able to get an erection and when it comes down to it, I don't get one (paranoia?)
Recently I was getting with this girl at a club, I (a little eager) got an erection there and suggested heading back to mine sharpish. We got home and started kissing etc, but as soon as I got her pants off I panicked and I remember thinking about going floppy and I lost my erection. After that I just wanted to go to sleep from embarrassment as it had happened again.
I have lost out on so many opportunities to be with beautiful girls because of being scared of not getting an erection so not even trying it on. It’s self defeating and most my friends think I’m gay (which makes me think I’m gay more…) because I’m good looking and haven’t been with a girl.
…I have also been worried about my sexuality which added to the stress / failure. My first sexual encounter was when I was very young (like 6) with my best friend at the time who was the same age -we touched each other's underwear (this might have something to do with it). I get aroused by the idea of guys masturbating in boxer shorts (it’s a fantasy) which is totally gay, but anal sex of the homo kind makes me feel physically sick. I could never picture myself being with another guy, aside from separate masturbation in the same room. I sometimes watch light bisexual videos but usually get off to straight porn and I love it when girls climax though lesbians don’t turn me on as much as male-female stuff. I indulge the fantasies more when I’m high (I have smoked marijuana regularly since I was 14/15 –that’s another issue…). Also, I’m a very good person to talk to; I listen to people’s problems and give sound advice which is another reason why people think I’m gay.
My first crush was on a girl, I see myself having a hot wife and guys, and I really like a couple of girls now but I’m too pussy to hook up with them –they’ve had a lot of action and I freak myself out with thoughts of being gay and not performing. Way too much stress for guy whose meant to be enjoying life!
Am I straight? How do I not freak out with pressure? I’d prefer going through the ‘bases’ rather than jumping straight into the home run, is this odd? Do all guys love lesbians? | Dude stop worrying ... live life, the answers will come when they are supposed to.
Yes...most guy's enjoy the mental image.
Deep breath's. | Sexually confused guy with performance anxiety -what's wrong with me?!? I'm 18 and never had sex (or even been jerked off) or had a girlfriend, it’s complicated but here goes...
Ever since I first couldn't get an erection with a girl I have been worried about never being able to get it up. I was at a party, she came up to me and flirting etc leant on me and I got aroused, later on when I hooked up with her again and was fingering her I didn't get hard –it ended with a ‘you’re a virgin aren’t you, don’t worry about it’ which is pathetic ending. All the time I was praying and focusing on getting an erection. I was also drunk and had been smoking cannabis. I have had a few encounters now and the first thing I always think about is not being able to get an erection and when it comes down to it, I don't get one (paranoia?)
Recently I was getting with this girl at a club, I (a little eager) got an erection there and suggested heading back to mine sharpish. We got home and started kissing etc, but as soon as I got her pants off I panicked and I remember thinking about going floppy and I lost my erection. After that I just wanted to go to sleep from embarrassment as it had happened again.
I have lost out on so many opportunities to be with beautiful girls because of being scared of not getting an erection so not even trying it on. It’s self defeating and most my friends think I’m gay (which makes me think I’m gay more…) because I’m good looking and haven’t been with a girl.
…I have also been worried about my sexuality which added to the stress / failure. My first sexual encounter was when I was very young (like 6) with my best friend at the time who was the same age -we touched each other's underwear (this might have something to do with it). I get aroused by the idea of guys masturbating in boxer shorts (it’s a fantasy) which is totally gay, but anal sex of the homo kind makes me feel physically sick. I could never picture myself being with another guy, aside from separate masturbation in the same room. I sometimes watch light bisexual videos but usually get off to straight porn and I love it when girls climax though lesbians don’t turn me on as much as male-female stuff. I indulge the fantasies more when I’m high (I have smoked marijuana regularly since I was 14/15 –that’s another issue…). Also, I’m a very good person to talk to; I listen to people’s problems and give sound advice which is another reason why people think I’m gay.
My first crush was on a girl, I see myself having a hot wife and guys, and I really like a couple of girls now but I’m too pussy to hook up with them –they’ve had a lot of action and I freak myself out with thoughts of being gay and not performing. Way too much stress for guy whose meant to be enjoying life!
Am I straight? How do I not freak out with pressure? I’d prefer going through the ‘bases’ rather than jumping straight into the home run, is this odd? Do all guys love lesbians? | Sorry Dude, but you got like six kinds of crazy goin' on.
J | Sexually confused guy with performance anxiety -what's wrong with me?!? I'm 18 and never had sex (or even been jerked off) or had a girlfriend, it’s complicated but here goes...
Ever since I first couldn't get an erection with a girl I have been worried about never being able to get it up. I was at a party, she came up to me and flirting etc leant on me and I got aroused, later on when I hooked up with her again and was fingering her I didn't get hard –it ended with a ‘you’re a virgin aren’t you, don’t worry about it’ which is pathetic ending. All the time I was praying and focusing on getting an erection. I was also drunk and had been smoking cannabis. I have had a few encounters now and the first thing I always think about is not being able to get an erection and when it comes down to it, I don't get one (paranoia?)
Recently I was getting with this girl at a club, I (a little eager) got an erection there and suggested heading back to mine sharpish. We got home and started kissing etc, but as soon as I got her pants off I panicked and I remember thinking about going floppy and I lost my erection. After that I just wanted to go to sleep from embarrassment as it had happened again.
I have lost out on so many opportunities to be with beautiful girls because of being scared of not getting an erection so not even trying it on. It’s self defeating and most my friends think I’m gay (which makes me think I’m gay more…) because I’m good looking and haven’t been with a girl.
…I have also been worried about my sexuality which added to the stress / failure. My first sexual encounter was when I was very young (like 6) with my best friend at the time who was the same age -we touched each other's underwear (this might have something to do with it). I get aroused by the idea of guys masturbating in boxer shorts (it’s a fantasy) which is totally gay, but anal sex of the homo kind makes me feel physically sick. I could never picture myself being with another guy, aside from separate masturbation in the same room. I sometimes watch light bisexual videos but usually get off to straight porn and I love it when girls climax though lesbians don’t turn me on as much as male-female stuff. I indulge the fantasies more when I’m high (I have smoked marijuana regularly since I was 14/15 –that’s another issue…). Also, I’m a very good person to talk to; I listen to people’s problems and give sound advice which is another reason why people think I’m gay.
My first crush was on a girl, I see myself having a hot wife and guys, and I really like a couple of girls now but I’m too pussy to hook up with them –they’ve had a lot of action and I freak myself out with thoughts of being gay and not performing. Way too much stress for guy whose meant to be enjoying life!
Am I straight? How do I not freak out with pressure? I’d prefer going through the ‘bases’ rather than jumping straight into the home run, is this odd? Do all guys love lesbians lol? | | Dude! Nothing is wrong with you! You're 18 for Christ's sake! This is a confusing, bewildering, amazing time. You already said you got an erection in the club when you were with the girl... so... you're def gettin boners from girls.... awesome. It just sounds like you thinking too much when the act is about to happen. You're paranoid that you're not going to be able to perform. This anxiety in turn makes it actually happen, cause you're thinking about it... and not about this totally hot girl that you're about to be intimate with. If you don't get hard... or you worry about it... try to focus on the girl. Eat her out... focus on her pussy... play with her ****... don't think about your erection... just think about making the girl feel good... and do what makes you feel horny. I believe once you stop worrying about not getting an erection... that is the time you will get hard and be able to plow away. |
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